family

There is a lot that goes into building character over time and we must not let our character and actions be influenced in the negative especially by others. Breaking family bonds is not something to do lightly nor should it be attempted as that path cannot possibly hold blessings for the parties involved. The wounds created by such acts are life long and extremely painful. It is a lot to forgive or be forgiven of. It is a haunting burden of the heart. That’s why no matter how much people rival,they do not spit out their family like street dogs. The room to be there for each other and wish each other well,no matter how grudgingly or bitterly must always surpass the desire to spit them out. That is the essence of family. That is how I was raised.