Insecurity has got to be one of the most annoying and irritating traits that people can have. When you have insecure friends or insecure spouses, you better be prepared to live a life full of petty issues and second guessing your actions. That’s because they psychologically believe that people are out to hurt them and therefore they keep looking for such signs in everything you do. Or maybe they just don’t feel worthy of what they have or maybe they just want it all. Whatever the reason, if you know such a person, then you need to brace yourself.
If you come home late….you’re cheating
If you don’t hear your phone ring….you’re ignoring them or cheating
Dare you cancel a date/ get together
Dare you have a misunderstanding…everything is misconstrued
Forget their birthday …you’re not a real friend
Communicating on text is a no no! things mean different to them
If you’re quiet for a day…the relationship is on the rocks
If you’re both quiet on each other…you’re obviously to blame
If someone is mad, you’re expected to read their mind to know what happened and dare you not know
Such relationships or friendships will always strain you because you always have to put into perspective how such a person would react or, you would always be explaining the little things you do. You have to account for 24 hours of your day everyday (Not that you will be believed). Essentially, you will be treated like a child and expect to treat that person like a child.
You will also be the one to always make the reconciliatory move and to always apologise. Its exhausting and if you’re a free spirit, you will always find yourself breaking loose.
Do you know such people?
Megs' 